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Welcome, romantic one đ©·
If you just landed here, you might be wondering what youâve stumbled across. Fair question - this isnât your typical newsletter about love and relationships.
Iâm Paige - a sexologist, intimacy coach, and intrepid conversationalist in my 30s, in a relationship with a man named Brad (youâll read all about him in my About page).
I help smart, self-aware women turn overthinking into intimacy and self-trust, so that their relationships can become the source of their greatest creations.
What Youâll Get Here
Think of this space as field notes from someone who is a professional in the field of intimacy and connection, but whoâs also been in the trenches of self-sabotage and relationship destruction - and, luckily, found her way back to closeness with some very insights to share.
If youâre here on a free plan, youâll receive me in your inbox weekly with:
đż Personal essays, intimate stories, and reflections
đ©· Gentle guidance for navigating intimacy, desire, and emotional connection with more self-trust (from the perspective of a sexologist)
đïž Podcast episodes on topics I find fascinating with experts I find fascinating - often Iâm learning in real time about sex, birth, death, health, consciousness, science, technology, and the lived experiences that shape us
But if you want to go deeper, you can upgrade to The Relationship Room, my paid subscription, where youâll get:
Practical how-tos and step-by-step toolkits for when intimacy feels stuck - the practices and tools Iâve refined through years of private client work that actually shift things
Guided audio practices (starting with my 7-day Stillness Guide) to help your nervous system rest, regulate, and open
Intimate shares from my life - the vulnerable details and behind-the-scenes of navigating this work in my own relationship that I only share here
Access to an intimate monthly circle and relational wisdom talk - deeper professional guidance in a held, collective space
The Relationship Room is where I turn ideas into action. The free posts will give you the insight - but transformation happens in practice.
And if you donât stick around?
Hereâs the thing: you can keep reading the relationship books, thinking your way through every conflict, waiting for your partner to finally âget itâ while you harbour more and more resentment towards your differences.
Or you can use your relationship and intimate life as a mirror, and an opportunity to deepen your understanding of yourself, so that someone else can deepen their understanding of you, too.
I know this path works, because Iâve walked it. And Iâm inviting you to walk it with me.
The Bigger Picture
My hope is that this space becomes somewhere to land when your relationship feels uncertain, a guide when youâre lost in your patterns, and a reminder that weâre all navigating the same mysterious chaos.
Thatâs why I named this substack On The Same Paige.
And Iâm so glad youâre here.
Big cuddles,
Paige xo.
